Today we celebrate the birthday of a great man! Well, two great men: Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, but also, and more importantly, to me, I celebrate the birth of my Uncle Larry! I love my Uncle Larry and I choose to believe when he tells me that I […]
Musings On Life In A Pandemic And The Similarities To My Life With Lupus:
Published on :Living through the pandemic is what my life is like living with lupus. A small part of me is relieved that so many people are living the way I have been forced to live since 2011. I know it is selfish, but this is the first time, in a long […]
An Ode To Lorraine Hansberry
Published on :My dear Lorraine Hansberry, you were a literary genius, and you left us too soon. Honestly, I think about Lorraine Hansberry’s “A Raisin in the Sun” every day of my life. I see her in every Black person I see, every Black person I read about, and every Black person […]
Confession: I Can’t Celebrate Biden’s Win Because I Am Terrified of Donald Trump.
Published on :re: domestic violence (trigger warning) Why I am terrified: Black folks have been in an abusive: physically, mentally, and emotional relationship with America for 400 years, and Donald Trump, specifically, for 4 years. If you know anything about domestic violence, you know why we, well, me (I can’t speak for […]
Dear Black Students, Your Freedom Will Not Come From What You Learn in School
Published on :The master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. Audre Lorde Dear Black Students: I understand how frustrating it must be to see all the anti-Blackness in the world now and feel unprepared with the tools you need to fight racism in schools. Schools are normally failing Black kids, so […]
White American’s “Logic” on Crime and Looting
Published on :White people: yes, we technically stole, looted, maimed, murdered, and exploited millions of African and Native Americans to establish the United States of America. And, yes, technically the folks who did the stealing, looting, murder, and exploitation, wrote the constitution and our American system of laws. And, yes, all of […]
Musings on Family and Country:
Published on :Written July 3rd, 2016 I love my family. We are an eclectic mix of folks. Mostly good, sometimes bad, with a few really bad apples thrown in. But, flaws and all, I unapologetically, unconditionally love my family. Is there stuff we need to work on? Yes. Am I still holding […]
Maybe Prison Isn’t The Answer to Crime?
Published on :Dear Black (Brown) folks: FIVE beautiful children have been murdered by gun violence in the last two weeks in Chicago. Rightfully, everyone wants “justice” and for someone to turn in the shooter. The thing that is the hardest for Black folks, is to humanize criminals. We have drunk the kool-aid […]
WHITE FOLKS: DO SOMETHING!
Published on :To my White friends: Don’t tell me how you feel about racism. Tell me what you are going to do to stop racism. I know racism is gross. I know racism is evil. I know racism is horrific. But what I don’t know is… what are YOU GOING TO DO […]
Black “Thugs” Lives Matter Too
Published on :This weekend over 100 people were shot in Chicago. And, of course, many folks, including Black folks are angry and want vengeance and punishment of the shooters. They are also including them as enemies to Black folks. But the shooters are victims of racism and perpetrators of racism. A […]